Category: Culture

  • Setsubun and Risshun: Say Goodbye to Winter and Hello to Spring

    Setsubun and Risshun: Say Goodbye to Winter and Hello to Spring

    The freezing cold of winter makes people long for spring. Spring, the time when flowers bloom. It is when the temperature goes up gradually. It is when people start going outdoors again. The weather is not too cold. Just “choudo ii”, as the Japanese say, meaning just right. The cold turns to cool. Everything turns bright and gay with flowers blooming and weather warming up. Adios to the dark and gloomy winter. But, when exactly is spring? In Japan, they have a celebration that marks the end of winter.

    What is Setsubun?

    Setsubun (節分) means seasonal divison. The kanji 節 means ‘season’ and the kanji 分means ‘part’. Setsubun’s original meaning is the last day of any season. Spring Setsubun, usually February third or fourth,is the last day of winter in the traditional Japanese calendar. Setsubun is said to be the old New Year’s Eve celebration basing on the Lunar New Year.

    How is Setsubun celebrated?



    On this day, Japanese people hold the mamemaki 豆まきor bean throwing ceremony for driving away bad luck and attracting good luck. It is a ceremony where they throw beans at the ‘devil’ and chant “Oni wa soto. Fuku wa uchi”, which means “Demons out. Blessings in.” Other translation says “Demons out. Happiness in.” Demons in this case represent bad luck. The chant is said to drive away all the bad things out, and bringing the good things in. People visit shrines and temples to pray. Big shrines sometimes hold a big throwing ceremony and lots of people come to attend. Shrines are beautifully decorated and somebody who is assigned as demons wear elaborate whole body costumes. Shrine priests also wear their special clothes. Sometimes, the city or town’s leaders come to attend to. When you go to supermarkets and grocery stores and even convenience stores, setsubun decorations are displayed. You can see the fuku or happy face and demon masks. Demons are usually in color red and color blue. Normally, Japanese people do their own ceremony at their homes. The demon is usually played by the father. After work, fathers wear a devil’s mask and come home to surprise the kids. The kids together with their moms throw beans at the ‘devil’ and chant.  Families with kids celebrate this ceremony more than those families without kids. Maybe, it’s because kids really believe that devils are real, while adults, they know it is just a pretend.

    What to eat


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    After having fun throwing beans at the devil, each family member picks up the beans and eats them with the number according to their age. That is to be said, five year-olds for example get to eat five beans and eighty-year olds get to eat eighty beans. It must be hard for grandpa and grandma to eat all those beans, I guess.
    Recently, about three to four years ago, my Japanese friend said that on Setsubun, Japanese eat ehoumaki (恵方巻き). Ehoumaki is a long sushi roll. It is said that eating ehoumaki attracts good luck. There are various kinds of ehoumaki. The one I had in school lunch consists of cucumber and crab stick. I saw in the television news that one shrine in Japan celebrated Setsubun by distributing ehoumaki to about a thousand shrine vsitors and they eat them altogether for good luck and happiness.

    My Experience



    I love festivals and I love learning Japanese culture. I have learned about Setsubun in the university where I studied Japanese. We did a short bean-throwing ceremony in the class and we chose our male classmate to act as the demon. It was fun but it was short and we wanted more. Upon hearing that there was a big bean-throwing ceremony in town, my friend and I decided to attend. We went to Kushida Shrine in Hakata, Fukuoka. 〒812-0026 Fukuoka Prefecture, Fukuoka, Hakata-ku, Kamikawabatamachi, 1, 博多区上川端町1−41

    In the entrance of the shrine was a big face of Fuku or the happy face. You can enter the shrine only through the mouth of the Fuku. The lines were long but my friend and I waited for our turn. Just waiting in line made us feel so excited. We could feel the energy around. The shrine was so full of people. Everybody was excited to get inside and join the ceremony. Inside, the shrine was so beautifully decorated. We saw Japanese priests in costumes and we saw some demons, too. The red demon was kind of cute so my friend had our picture taken with him.


    During the highlight of the ceremony, the guests and priests on the stage throw the beans while saying the chant and the people on the ground tried to catch the beans. We tried to catch some beans, too. We had so much fun. It was a very good experience for me and my friend. Now that she left Japan back to her country for good, while I stayed here and work, we always look back to those times we went to Kushida Shrine every Setsubun.


    As a teacher here in Japan, I myself experienced becoming the demon. I wore the demon mask and my students throw peanuts at me. I ran around trying to avoid there throw but, you know, kids are very energetic; of course, and I got hit many times. I lost, as it should be. It was so much fun. We picked up the peanuts after and ate according to our age. Well, I had lots of peanuts as you guess. In my school this year, we had ehoumaki for lunch and everyone got a pack of fukumame. Everybody was happy.

    Risshun (立春)



    Comes the next day, February fourth, is the risshun, or the first day of spring according to the traditional lunisolar calendar. Even though it is still cold around the month of February, even though many people still wear all their winter clothes, with their necks still wrap with thick scarves, it is not as cold compared with the previous months of January and December. Around the month of February, plums start to blossom. Plum blossom is the early sign of spring. And this time, we can say, “Indeed, spring has come.”

  • Trending Na Miss U Sa Pinas, Trending Pud Ba Sa Japan?

    Trending Na Miss U Sa Pinas, Trending Pud Ba Sa Japan?

    Malingaw ko magscan sa akong timeline kay makita nko kalahian sa Pinoy ug Hapon when it comes to beauty pageants. Trending kaayo sa Fb sa Pinoy ang Miss Universe (Ms. U). Halos tanan akong mkita sa timeline puro about Ms. U. Halos tanan nakatutuk gyud. Ma pa-TV, streaming, etc.

    Ang uban gani, bisan naa sa trabaho, muundang ky mutan-aw gyud. Ang uban nga tigdugay mangmata nagmilagro ug mata sayo kay mutan aw lagi ug Ms. U.

    On the other hand, ang mga Hapon, wa koy nakita o nadungog about aning butanga. Busy sa ila work ug skwela. Bisan sa balita, wa koy nakita nga ginews kinsa nakadaog. Wala bisan isa ka commercial about sa pageant. Kung naa man ug wala lng nko nakita, dili gyud ana ka-big deal sa ila ang beauty pageant. Wa silay paki kung kinsa mga bayhana nangapil ug kung kinsay makoronahan. Dili sila hilig ug pagwapahay ug pa sexy-hay. Ang ilaha – trabaho ug responsibilidad ug realidad.

    Dili parehas sa kadaghanan sa mga Pinoy. 🙂

    O basi kami ra. Hehe.

    Maremeber lng nko sa una dugay na. Bata pa ko. Manan-aw pud gyud mi sa among balay ug mga pageant sama sa Miss Universe, Miss World ug unsa pa ng mga beauty pageant. Bisan gabii na kaayo, pulawan gyud makita lng kinsay makoronahan. Ganahan pud kaayo mi magtan aw sa mga sexy na kandidata nga nka swimsuit ug mga nagkalain-laing gown. Mag-iyahay pud mig pili ug kinsay mudaog. Mura pug judge hehe. Murag tradition na gyud sa mga Pinoy. Nka embed na sa kultura. Mao siguro, ang uban, ginatudluan nag rampa ug modeling (selfie etc) ila mga anak na babae sugod sa gagmay pa. Hehe. Cute tan awon. Bisan sa skul, beauty contest dili mawala. Ms. Nutrition, Lakambini, Ms. United Nation, Queen of Hearts. Bisan gani teacher naay beauty contest. Lol. Dala pa kwartahay. Funding para sa school. Hehe. Sa Purok, sa Barangay, sa Siyudad, tanan naay “Miss”. Kung lokal na lengwahe usahay tawagon ug “Mutya” o “Binibini”.

    Ug inig gani dili makadaog ang pambato, ang kasagaran rasun “giluto” lol. Ug kung dili maayo ang tubag, mag-andam nlng ang kandidata ug mga isa ka semana hantud isa ka bulan na pagpanaway sa iyang abilidad. “Bugua pud ui!”
    “Ngano kana gipili?”
    “Di kabalo mutubag”.
    “Paluma-luma!”
    “Maypag si kuan nlng tu..”

    Ug uban pa hehe..

    Bitaw no…unsa may benepisyo nato anang kahilig natu sa pageant?

    Maasenso ba gyud ta ana?  O makasamot ka pobre?

    Ikaw..unsa sa imo tan-aw?

  • Nagasaki Chinese Lantern Festival

    Nagasaki Chinese Lantern Festival

    Nagasaki City, in Kyushu Japan, celebrates The Lantern Festival every Chinese New Year.

    This year, the Year of the Rooster, celebrated on January 28,2016, marks the opening of the two-week Chinese Lantern Festival in Nagasaki.

    Below are some of the photos I took. Yes, its only a few because I take a lot of photos like crazy. Blame it to the aspiring photographer in me. Or maybe I just love festivals.

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    The lanterns in Chinatown

    The place was filled with people. You can feel the festive mood.

    One of the giant lanterns that lit up the city.

    Another giant lantern.

    This year’s animal.

    People climbing  up the stairs to the shrine to pray.

    Lanterns in close up.

    The altar where a great crowd of people wanted to see (pray?).

    The dragon – symbol of Chinatown.

    The tallest lantern-the Rooster.

    The Megane Bashi. Megane is eyeglasses in Japanese. The bridge looks like an eyeglasses if seen from afar. The two arches with its reflection on the water look like eyeglasses. 

  • Japanese Elementary School Tour  Part 2

    Japanese Elementary School Tour Part 2

    Hello everyone! Here is the second part of our school tour. Come on! Let’s go outside the main building.

    Gymnasium

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    Here is the gymnasium. The gymnasium is one of the most important and most memorable places in school because this is where the school ceremonies are held. Opening ceremony, entrance ceremony and closing ceremony are held in the gymnasium. P.E classes are sometimes held here too. On rainy days when kids can’t play outside, they play in the gymnasium instead.

    Swimming Pool (Pu-ru)


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    It doesn’t matter if the school is big (with hundreds of students) or small (with just thirty students all in all), there will always be a swimming pool in its grounds. Elementary students learn swimming twice week starting around the month of June until the end of the first semester before the school closes for summer vacation. This is one thing about Japanese elementary schools that I really like because we don’t have it in our country. We just learn swimming by ourselves.

    Playground (Undojo)

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    All study no play will certainly make the Japanese children go bored. So the school has a wide playground for the kids to play. They also do their P.E classes here. And of course, this is the venue for the sports festival. It is also very safe and kept clean. No trash or broken glasses whatsoever or anything that could hurt the kids. By the way, If you use your Google map and just wander about, and see a light brown spot on it, that is a school playground! So it’s easy to find a school in Google map by its playground.

    Classrooms (Kyoshitsu)

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    This is the students’ classroom. Each classroom is equipped with audio video systems. The most number of students in a classroom is forty. Nothing more than that. School in the countrysides has less (I had 8 and my friend has only 3). The classrooms are very well-ventilated with big sliding windows and enough light bulbs. Doors are sliding, too. Each room has (always) two doors. Each of the chair has drawers for the students’ stuff and at the back of the room are cabinets to hold the students’ bags.

    Music Room (Ongakushitshu)

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    In the music room is of course the musical instruments and the star of these instruments is the piano. I like the elementary music in Japan. They always sing songs and the music echoes all over the place. So sweet to hear the kids singing. Such innocent voice.

    Science Room (Rikashitsu)

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    The advancement of technology starts here.This science room is fully equipped. A real laboratory. Complete with all equipments and experiment tables.

    Arts and Crafts Room

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    For the artistic and creative hands, this room is heaven. Many students like arts and crafts and when they do it, they are serious. It is really an art. They usually display their work of art in the school lobby and hallways.

    Multi-Purpose Room (Tamokutekishitsu)

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    As the name implies, the multi-purpose room is used for just any purpose. It could be a meeting room for students’ club, a changing room (for P.E uniforms) but more often, it is used as the English room. English classes are held once a week in the elementary schools.

     

    Home Economics Room (Kateikashitsu)

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    Like the other rooms, the home economics room is also fully-equipped to develop the kids ability more specifically in cooking. It has stoves in every table and the cabinets are full of kitchen tools and equipments.

    Broadcasting Room(Housoushitsu)

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    For the young journalist, this room is a very good place for practice. Selected elementary students use the broadcasting room in the morning before classes start (to greet everyone) and during lunch time (to do some announcement and explain the lunch ingredients and nutrition). Teachers also use this for some important announcements.

    Computer Room (Pasokonshitsu)

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    Japanese kids start learning about computers in elementary schools. And they have enough high quality computers to speed up their learning. All schools have Internet connection.

    Hand-washing Area (Araiba)

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    I would like to mention this area in our tour because this is very important for the kids health. Hand-washing areas are found in every corner or alley of the school. Students are trained to wash they’re hands before and after eating and after playing.
    And there is one place I almost forget to mention which is liked by many students. It is the place where the school keep its pet animals. It is usually rabbits that are kept in that ‘cage’. It’s a big cage and students are trained to take care of the animals.

    Conclusion

    Japanese is being praised around the world for its advance technology, rich culture, clean environment and well-mannered people. If any country would like to imitate Japan, I think it is better if they start imitating Japan’s educational system. Invest in quality education and the rest will follow to the road of success.

  • Japanese Elementary School Tour Part 1

    Japanese Elementary School Tour Part 1

    Japan is a highly educated country. It’s government invest a great amount of its resources on the education sector which is evident on the school resources and facilities. Educational institutions all over Japan are  fully equipped and is therefore a very good training ground for schoolchildren.
    In this article, I will take you inside a Japanese elementary school for you to see and take inspiration in creating an excellent learning environment. Let’s now start our school tour.

    Entrance (Genkan) 

     
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    It is very common to have a floor step (a step or two) in the school entrance. It is always elevated from the ground. In the entrance, you will see the school logo and the school name. Take note that the entrance for students is separate from the entrance for teachers and other school workers.

    Shoebox (kutsubaku)

     
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    In Japan, one needs two sets of shoes when going to school. Outdoor shoes and indoor shoes. Upon entering the school entrance, outdoor shoes are put in the shoebox and indoor shoes are used. These shoeboxes are labeled per grade, per class, and per students on each box. The same goes with the teachers. Don’t worry if you visit a school. There are always indoor slippers ready for visitors.

    Hallway (Roka)

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    Right after the entrance and the shoeboxes is the hallway. The hallway leads to the different parts of the school. This is also where posters and announcements are being displayed.

    Principal’s Office (Kochoshitsu)

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    The Principal,’as the school’s highest official has a very nice working space, the Principal’s office. It usually has sofa to entertain special guests and a nice long table to conduct important meetings.

    Teachers’ Room (Shokuinshitsu)

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    The teachers before and after their classes stay, meet and work in the Teachers’ Room. Each teacher has her own table and chair. The tables are lined-up side by side and fronting each other. The tables are grouped according to grade level. The top three school officials (Principal, Vice-Principal and Head Teacher) are positioned in one side of the room with their tables also lined up.

    Registrar’s Office (Jimushitsu)

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    The Registrar’s office is where the non-teaching personnel work. School visitors can inquire from here. Teachers also get their school supplies from this room. Everything a teacher needs in class: paper, clips, rubber bands, laminating film, etc.)

    Printing Room (Insatsushitsu)

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    As the school is a paper tiger, a printing room is indeed necessary. Here teachers can do their photocopying and other printing needs. This room is complete with paper cutters and all sizes and sorts of paper.

    Toilet (toire/benjo)

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    Toilets are found on each floor of the school. Boys are separate from girls, as well as the teachers toilet with separate females and males.
    Toilets are supplied with unlimited tissue and hand soap. It is kept very clean. Indoor slippers are not used inside the toilet. Toilet slippers are used instead.

    Library (toshokan)

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    Usually on breaktime between the second and third period and after lunch students go to the library. Japanese elementary schools really promote reading among students. They even have a chart to show who has read the most number of books and they also have a regular list of reccomended books to read.

    Clinic (hokenshitsu)

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    School clinics are so cool and relaxing. A very accommodating place for kids who get sick while in school. Plus, the school nurse is very kind. The school clinic gets crowded when it’s time to measure students height and weight or if they have dental or eye check up, and in winter when flu spreads.

    Pantry (kyuushokushitsu)

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    Most schools have their own pantry where the school lunch is being prepared. This area gets very busy during lunchtime when students get their food and utensils and later when they return them after eating. Other schools don’t have pantry but there is a separate area called kyushoku center located where they prepare the lunch for the school’s within the community.
    Let’s have a break. Sit back and relax. Let’s continue our school tour in the next article. In the next part, let’s go outside the main building of the school and see what’s around. See you in a short time.
  • Wedding Cultures in Japan and the Philippines

    Wedding Cultures in Japan and the Philippines

    Wedding is one of the most celebrated events in one’s life all over the world. It is interesting to note that saying “I do” and the intricate details of getting married may be the same, slightly different or the complete opposite in one culture from another culture.

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    In this article, we will talk about the wedding cultures in Japan and the Philippines. Being a Filipina living in Japan for few years now, I am confident to say that I can at least share to you a little knowledge about this matter straight from my own experience. Some of it you may already know and some may surprise you. Some might make you feel glad that you are born Japanese or Filipino or the other way around.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    Getting married in Japan is very practical and let me say very realistic. Let me enumerate them one by one.

    1. Getting married in the city hall.

    A couple can get married officially by going to the city hall and file a report of marriage. All you need to do is fill up a form where two witnesses sign, submit a paper proving you are eligible to get married, some pertinent documents like family register and that’s it. Once you submit these documents, get a marriage certificate, you’re officially married. This is the only way to legally get married in Japan. The marriage date is when you submit the papers.

     

    2. Wedding ceremony.

    It is a common practice for Japanese to have a wedding ceremony after the official marriage in the city hall. The ceremony can be traditional or western style. This is when the couple with their families invite relatives and friends to celebrate with them.




    3. Wedding clothes

    In a traditional Japanese wedding, the bride and groom wear the traditional wedding clothes. A black montsuki kimono and hakama for the groom and white shiromuku kimono for the bride. The couple also change attire to a more western style during the reception. Some brides get to change to three to five different gowns during the wedding party.


    The guests usually put on a formal wear, usually dark colors. It is not uncommon to see guests wearing black dresses.

     

    4. Money gift

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    This part of the wedding culture of Japan make a lot of foreigners’ eyes bulge and mouth utter a big “WHAAT?!” in surprise. In Japan, all invited guests, even family, will have to give a certain amount of (big) money to the newly wed. Immediate family should give the largest amount of money, especially the eldest sibling, usually up to ¥100,000. or more and friends should give at least ¥30,000. This money will help the newly wed cover for the wedding expenses. A very good idea, isn’t it?


    5. Wedding Souvenirs

    Wedding souvenirs in Japan are not just ordinary cute display. Couples usually give their guests something that can be used at home like kitchen wares. On the first Japanese wedding I attended, I got a set of three ceramic food containers. It’s so awesome. In another wedding, we got a half dozen of glass.

     

    6. Wedding party

    Wedding party does not end at the reception. They usually have a nijikai, an after party or a second party. Others even have sanjikai, a third party. Guests, especially the young ones go to clubs or karaoke and drink like there’s no tomorrow.

     

    Philippines

    Marriage in the Philippines can range from the very simple mass wedding, where many couples are wed at the same time, to the very elaborate grand wedding.

    1. Pre-marriage preparation

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    Getting married in the Philippines traditionally starts in a pamanhikan. This is when the man and his parents go to the woman’s house and ask permission to her parents to marry her. There is a small celebration and eat together during this occasion. In a very traditional family, there is a so-called dowry. It is the money and/or precious gifts given by the man’s family to the woman’s family as a symbol of gratitude. But, nowadays, pamanhikan and dowry are slowly disappearing.

    Before a wedding ceremony can take place, a couple must secure a marriage license from the city hall, and undergo a pre-cana seminar, a seminar required by the Catholic church. Another pre-marriage preparation that is trending recently is having a pre-nuptial photoshoot. Unbelievably, Filipinos spend so much money for this photoshoot. Blame it to the social media and the photo fanatic society.

     

    2. Wedding ceremony

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    Eighty percent of the Filipinos are Roman Catholic, so most prefer to have a church wedding , although a couple can also have a civil wedding less the hassle of submitting a bunch of requirements for a church wedding. Both church wedding and civil wedding are legally recognized.

    There are so many superstitious beliefs that surround a Filipino wedding ceremony. You might as well do a separate research for this. A church wedding is a mass with the traditional ceremony including the lighting of the candle, putting on veil, putting on cord, and passing of coins, each with a specific meaning.

     

    3. Wedding clothes

     White wedding gown is the usual trend among Filipino brides matched with tuxedo for men. It is also common for men to wear barong tagalog, the traditional costume for Filipino men. A color motif is also a tradition in Philippine weddings. If the color motif is light green, everything should have at least a touch of light green, from the entourage’s clothes, guests’ clothes, reception decoration, cake, invitation card, and everything in between.


    4. Money dance

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    This is one tradition that has been passed from generations to generations. In some point during the wedding party, the newly-wed will have their first dance as a married couple and while they are dancing, guests will pin money on their clothes. The relatives of the groom will pin on the bride’s clothes and the bride’s relatives pin on the groom’s. The money collected will serve as a gift to the couple.

     

    5. Wedding gifts

    The newly-wed receives gift from the guests. It can be as big as a washing machine or refrigerator or as small as a dozen of spoons. There is a part in the wedding party where couples open the biggest and the smallest gift.

     

    6. Wedding party

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    Wedding parties in the Philippines  can be classified into two types. One is held in a commercial place like restaurant, hotel or resort. The other one is in the residence of one of the newly-weds (usually the bride’s). People in the city usually have their wedding receptions in commercial places and pay large sums of money for a specific number of guests. On the other hand, people from the countryside prefer to have the reception in their house and most of the neighbors (the entire community) take part in the celebration.

    Contrasting Points

    • Wearing black dress in Japan during a wedding celebration is alright but never in the Philippines. It is considered as a sign of disgust and sadness.
    • Filipino guests don’t have to give money gift to the newly-wed like in Japan, instead, material gifts are given to the couple which are commonly household items to help the newly-wed in their start of a new life together. Rather, the newlywed can receive money through money dance.

    One of the many interesting things you’ll learn from living abroad is that you get to know the foreign country’s culture and your own culture more deeply as well.

     

  • How to learn Japanese Fast

    How to learn Japanese Fast

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    You are coming to Japan. Or maybe you are already here. Not as a temporary visitor but for a short-term stay. Maybe you are a student or a contract worker. You need to learn some Japanese. Hurry! Your mind said. You start grabbing a paper and pen ready to scribble some Japanese characters. You search the Internet for Japanese lessons. Perhaps for the first days you are so enthusiastic and excited to learn and use the language, but as soon as you realize that it’s not a straight, paved road to success, you start dwindling down like an old yellow leaf of a Ginko tree.

    What to do? Here are some advice I extracted from my years of experience learning the Japanese language.

    1. Enroll in a Japanese language school. 

    If you want to (really) learn, go to school. Of course you can study on your own and avoid spending money on tuition, but, if you use your hard-earned money to pay tuition, there will be no reason for you to back out and quit studying when times get rough. You will make sure that you will get back every penny you spend by studying hard. Moreover, the classroom atmosphere will help you follow strict rules like attendance and submission of assignments, which, when you just do a self-study, can be easily neglected and disregarded. Most importantly, it is always better and fun to learn when you interact with teachers and classmates.

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    2. Self-study

    Wether you can afford a language school or not, self-study is not an option. It is a must! Most language schools offer classes only few times a week and this is not effective (that, if you want to learn the language fast). In order to learn a language, you have to do it everyday, at least for the first three months. It is always better to support your formal study with self-study. Even for just an hour a day.
    3. Watch Japanese TV, animes, and movies.

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    Sometimes, it gets so boring learning Japanese from a book. It makes your head heavy and full (of kanji) and you start to dazzle. Have a break (in learning from a book, but not in learning Japanese). Watch Japanese anime or a movie you like (with subtitles will help). Drama, comedy, action, horror. Japanese movies are great. Even Japanese pranks will help. Don’t worry if you don’t understanding everything that you hear. Listening is important. It is the basic of learning a language. You will certainly catch some words used in the movie you watch. By the way, my favorite anime is Chibi Marukochan 🙂
    4. Find a language partner

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    Language is not a language until you use it to communicate. So, while doing 1, 2 and 3 above, it is advisable to find a language partner who can help you practice what you are learning. When I was studying Japanese, I had my Japanese tutor who I met once or twice a week. She is a university volunteer and she likes to learn English, so it was a language exchange. If you have no Japanese friends or you are not in Japan, you can tap another friend who is also learning Japanese and you can set a ‘Japanese only’ time. And don’t forget that the world is in a web. Maybe you can find some in the chat room. Just always be careful about your privacy and be straightforward in the beginning that you just want to practice your Japanese.
    5. Talk to the natives

    The best of all the rest, talk to the natives. When you finally arrive in Japan, don’t be afraid to go out and use the language. Talk to the sales personnel, the station attendant, the waiters and waitresses. Even if you just speak a few words, Japanese will always admire you and say

    “Jouzu”, meaning, you’re good! Join a club where the members are Japanese and try to talk to them. Be friends with them and spend more time with them (than your fellow countrymen). Immerse yourself in the language with the native speakers.
    You can always disregard these advice if you don’t care about learning Japanese fast or simply you’re not interested to learn the language at all.

  • 5 Reasons Why I Moved to Japan

    5 Reasons Why I Moved to Japan

    April 30, 2011. When I first came to Japan as a visiting relative. I stayed for a month with my sister and in that short period of time, I fell in love with Japan. I came back as a scholar on September 24, 2012, and studied for a year and a half. During my stay, I’m so enchanted with Japan that I wanted to stay in this country for good. So, I’m here, staying for almost four years now. I have my reasons why I chose to stay in Japan, and I think many can relate with me.

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    5. Economic Advantage

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    Japan is one of the top economic powers in the world. What I (financially) earn here (with lesser effort and work) is almost four times as much as I earn in my country. Although the cost of living is far different (it is so much cheaper in my homeland; Japan is expensive), with my earnings, I can provide myself more than enough, send money to my family back home and enjoy life without thinking so much of financial constraints.

    4. Environmental Safety and Security.

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    When I came here for the first time, I was surprised to see that there were no security guards in establishments (which is common in my country) and the policemen don’t have guns. There seems to be NO threat to security. The crime rate in Japan is relatively low. Japan was ranked as the safest country in the world in 2014 by the Organization of Economic Cooperation and Development (OECD).   (You can read more about the crime rate in Japan here http://www.japantimes.co.jp/opinion/2014/01/25/editorials/crime-rate-dips-again-in-japan/).

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    In terms of natural calamity, we know that Although Japan is prone to earthquakes and other natural calamities, the buildings are built to stand against strong shake and the emergency information system is very apt and advanced that whenever there is heavy rain pour or earthquake, cell phones alarm and disseminate automated messages regarding calamity and safety. Moreover, it is very clean in Japan. No pollution. The environment is clean, safe and secured. 

    3. Spirit of Equality and Harmony

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    In Japan, harmony is very important. Japanese people follow rules and try to avoid conflict as much as possible. They are very harmonious and very disciplined. They follow rules and always think of others. You can see that when they get on the train, when they take escalators, when they go to the restaurant, they always fall in line and wait for their turn. Here, there seem to be no rich and poor. No “untouchables”. Here, a politician is just a worker, like everybody else. Everyone’s equal. Japanese give importance to uniformity, too.  You can see that in the way they dress. Very few, almost nobody wants to stand out with bright-colored, printed dress. Subtle colors are prevalent. Everything is just smooth and neutral.

    2. Advance Technology

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    Undoubtedly, Japan is so far, very advanced in terms of technology. I can easily travel anywhere using its hi-tech transportation system: the bullet train, the efficient and always on time local trains, subways, and buses. The world is just a touch away using my smartphone with a very fast and reliable internet connection and free Wi-Fi in big cities. There are hi-tech toilets, vending machines, automatic doors, and (some places in Tokyo) robotic receptionist which makes Japan a really awesome and very convenient place to live.


    1. Travel and Leisure

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    Most of all, living in Japan is like living my life on a grand vacation holiday. There are so many places in Japan worth visiting.


    From the simple temples and shrines in my neighborhood to the grand ones in Kyoto (and many other places), the historic sites like Nagasaki and Hiroshima and the many world heritage sites scattered all over Japan. There are hot springs where I can have ultimate relaxation. The food is excellent and healthy. What else can you ask for?

  • How to say “I love you” in Japanese

    How to say “I love you” in Japanese

    What is love?
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    “Love is a many splendored thing” as the popular old song goes. There are so many definitions of love. I bet you know more than three. I consider it as the universal language of the soul; the core of humanity; the essence of existence. Whoever you are, wherever you are from, we all feel and express love. But, how do you express it? There are so many ways to express it, and one of them is basically, by saying the magic words “I love you.” 

     

    Magic words or abused words?

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    In some countries, the words “I love you” is often used. Not only couples and family members use it, but even friends do, too. It is always flowing, always abundant. Sometimes, it can change a woman’s bad mood to good mood in a snap like magic. It is not unusual to use these words upon waking up, leaving to work, as ending to a couple’s phone conversation, or in any random occasions, such as expressing thanks to a favour granted by a friend. “Oh, I love you! You are a very generous friend! I can always lean on your shoulders when times get rough”, with matching hugs and kisses. Too often used, these magic words, becomes abused words. 

     

    Saying “I love you” in Japan

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    In Japan, saying “I love you” is quite different. The literal translation of “I love you” in Japanese is “Ai shiteiru”.  However, “Ai shiteiru” is rarely used. Love in Japan is expressed in a varying degree.

    1.      Suki. 

    “Suki” literally means like or fondness. It is used to express your fondness about something (things, food, hobbies, etc). “Ringo ga suki” (I like apples), “Sakka ga suki” (I like soccer), “Nihon ga suki” (I like Japan). If you meet someone and you think you like her or him, you may say “Kanojo ga suki” (I like her), “Kare ga suki” (I like him). This is very casual expression of liking and may be used during the first stage of dating.      

     2.      Daisuki

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    “Dai” means big and “suki” means like, therefore in a literal meaning, “daisuke” means to like very much; In English we may say “I’m crazy about animes”, in Japanese that is “Anime ga daisuki”. It is a step higher than the less casual “suki”. It is important to point out that “daisuki” also means “I love you”. In actuality, it is more often used by couples to express love rather than “ai shiteiru”. 

    3.      Ai shiteru        

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    “Ai” (love) is considered a very special word in Japan. So special like a precious and expensive kimono inherited from the great, great ancestors. So special that you should not use it every day. It is only used for a few important occasions. “Aishiteiru” is rarely used, like wearing kimono only during a rite of passage. It is used with great caution so as not to ruin its authenticity. So, when Japanese say “ai shiteiru”, it means they’re very serious, very real, and often said in private rather than in public. That’s why they prefer to say “daisuki” to (maybe) preserve the meaning of real love and don’t lose its meaning. Do you agree?

     

    Special Note:

    When a Japanese guy wants to be a girl’s boyfriend, he might not say “daisuki” rather he will say “tsukiate kudasai” (Be my steady date./Go out with me.)

     

  • Why do so many Japanese commit suicide?

    Why do so many Japanese commit suicide?

    We have seen and heard it in the news. Not once, not twice, but many times. They do it in the privacy of their rooms. Or in a far-away mountain where no one can see. But, worse, within the public’s eyes like in trains, and the latest, in the zero-accident but now tarnished record shinkansen, where most likely innocent people could be affected. In the latest high profile suicide act committed inside the Shinkansen, one innocent passenger also died due to suffocation. Many Japanese has committed suicide. But, why? Why in such a beautiful country would some people chose to end their lives? I’ve tried to search for some answers to this query and let me share the answers with you.
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    1. Overrated 
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    Suicide happens everywhere. A sad fact that some people on their individual struggles on this lovely earth choose to not continue fighting and make a permanent rest. “Jisatsu” as called in Japan, suicide is a universal occurrence. Japan is not alone. And more importantly, Japan is not the leading country with high suicidal rate. In fact, Japan is only at the eighteenth out the twenty-five countries with the world’s highest suicidal rate. On the fifth spot is Lithuania, Sri Lanka fourth, South Korea third, North Korea second, and Guyana on the top (http://list25.com/25-countries-with-the-highest-suicide-rates-in-the-world/2/). Japan  is not even in the top ten list.

    In my own opinion, it might be because Japan’s crime rate is really low and the news companies has nothing else to talk about but the self-inflicted crime such as suicide. In other countries, there are more pressing issues in the society that talking about those who commit suicide takes a back seat. Media plays a big role about societal issues. The more the issue circulates in the media, the more it appears to be prominent than what it is in reality.

    2. Societal Attitudes
    Maybe you have read somewhere how good and harmonious the Japanese are. How well they follow rules as embedded in their “atarimae” culture. Atarimae in English means natural, reasonable. They do what is right because it’s “atarimae”. It is the natural thing to do. It is natural to throw garbage in the proper place. It is natural to fall in line and wait for your turn. It is natural to resign from your job when accused of something. And sometimes, it is natural to end your life when you are in trouble and the trouble you are in causes troubles to others. Like when a head of a company fails to do his job and put the company in a terrible situation. Or an old person suffering from a disease and needs to be taken care of by his family. They don’t want to trouble others so they chose to end their lives. Japanese also value honesty and integrity. That when they are put into a disgracing situation, a scandal that tarnishes their names and reputation, they find it very difficult to handle and impossible to repair. A situation that can only be escaped by disappearing. Of course, this does not happen to every Japanese. Only to a very few.

    3. Historical Values 
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    In the old Japanese society, a ritual suicide by disembowelment called “seppuku” also called “harakiri” was formerly performed by Japanese samurai. Seppuku literally means “stomach cutting”. The samurai committing seppuku would use a small knife called a dagger and cut their stomach while another samurai acting as their second lopping off their head. This highly ritualized form of suicide, a part of samurai’s bushido (samurai’s way of life) was abolished as a capital punishment in 1873. But even after the abolishment, voluntary seppuku goes on in the military grounds. This behavior is said to be widely praised by propaganda. I bet this could be one of the reasons why some Japanese still commit suicide. It is in the culture. It is in the history.

    In the end, we cannot really tell the reasons why some Japanese commit suicide because I believe that the best person who can tell us is the person committing the act itself, which, unfortunately, is impossible to achieve unless you see them and talk to them in the other side of the world.